|Monday, November 18th, 2002|
just got back from dinner with Tammy. We haven't talked for a while, so she wanted to catch up.
She's upset that all the effort she put in helping me choose a gift for Mel has gone to waste since Mel's still chasing Andy.She's more upset than I am about that.
She's also upset at the fact that I show Mel that I dislike Andy.
"she's probably all giddy that she has guys fightin over her! You need to get chummy with Andy and like him more than you like her! That'll get her into wondering why you don't like her! " That makes sense...
She also explained this theory of relationships between men and women that she read. Guys have one relationship ladder. While girls have 2 ladders. When a guy meets a girl, she gets automatically assigned a rung on his ladder. However, when a girl meets a guy she must choose between her 2 ladders and then a rung within those ladders.
With guys the top rung would be the supermodel that they would actively like to fuck, next rung would be cute enough to put up with her shit and date, next one is a girl that you'd fuck if you were drunk and would still admit to it, and the last rung is a girl you would fuck drunk but never admit to.
with women, they have a 'friendship ladder' and a real ladder. A guy can never cross from one into the other. Don't even try because she assigns you a ladder upon first impression. And for all the guys that were 'friends' first and then moved into a relationship... that's because she already had you on the relationship ladder, she was just acting like you were on the friendship ladder. Confusing huh? That's why I'll never understand women.
so this is the theoretical rating system for women:
Money and Power: 50%
Things Women Say They Care About But Do Not: 10%
(this includes intelligence, sense of humor, honesty, sensitivity etc. ]
IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS
Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:
The guy is gay
The guy does not find you attractive.
The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder
Here's the site we gleamed all this info from The Ladder Theory
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